Archive for the 'Sex' Category

A Lesson on Eating Humble Pie

Terri Whitehouse August 8th, 2008

Mark Foley:

I am deeply sorry and I apologize for letting down my family and the people of Florida I have had the privilege to represent.

David Vitter:

This was a very serious sin in my past for which I am, of course, completely responsible. Several years ago, I asked for and received forgiveness from God and my wife in confession and marriage counseling. Out of respect for my family, I will keep my discussion of the matter there-with God and them. But I certainly offer my deep and sincere apologies to all I have disappointed and let down in any way.

Eliot Spitzer:

From those to whom much is given, much is expected. I have been given much — the love of my family, the faith and trust of the people of New York, and the chance to lead this state. I am deeply sorry I did not live up to what was expected of me.

To every New Yorker, and to all those who believed in what I tried to stand for, I sincerely apologize. I look at my time as governor with a sense of what might have been, but I also know that as a public servant, I and the remarkable people with whom I worked have accomplished a great deal.

John Edwards:

It is inadequate to say to the people who believed in me that I am sorry, as it is inadequate to say to the people who love me that I am sorry. In the course of several campaigns, I started to believe that I was special and became increasingly egocentric and narcissistic. If you want to beat me up - feel free. You cannot beat me up more than I have already beaten up myself. I have been stripped bare and will now work with everything I have to help my family and others who need my help.

A Must Read: Kentucky Takes Ab-Only Funds as Health Indicators Fall

Terri Whitehouse July 30th, 2008

I’ve written time and time again about the wastefulness of government-funded ignorance, when comprehensive sex-ed has proven to be the best way to improve health outcomes.

Well, Catherine Morrison has a very important post at RH Reality Check today about where Kentucky stands in the midst of this, and it’s not a pretty picture:

The teen birth rate is nearly 20 percent higher than the national average (49.2 per 1,000 young women ages 15-19 compared to 41.1 in the same age group). Most states have experienced declines in teen birth rates, but in a single year the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) reports Kentucky’s rate rose nearly 7 percent. The nationwide teen birth rate increased by less than half that in the same year.

The trend follows in HIV statistics. The overall prevalence is low, but the disease impacts one community disproportionately: African Americans make up only seven percent of the total population of Kentucky but nearly 34 percent of new HIV cases in the state, according to the CDC.

These numbers are alarming, as is the curriculum being taught:

In looking at the curricula used by these health departments, CPCs, and other community-based organizations, five central, and disturbing, themes emerged: advancing religious messages; relying on messages of fear and shame; fostering gender myths and stereotypes; promoting the questionable practice of virginity pledges; and providing misinformation.

I urge you to read Morrison’s full article and to contact Gov. Beshear about joining the number of states that have rejected abstinence-only funding.

OMG! Sex Ed Works!

Terri Whitehouse December 20th, 2007

Though likely to be overshadowed by the fact - and all the sexism and judgment it entails - that some teen starlet went and got herself knocked up, the CDC has released a report that comprehensive sexual education works:

They found teenage boys who had sex education in school were 71 percent less likely to have intercourse before age 15, and teen girls who had sex education were 59 percent less likely to have sex before age 15.

Sex education also increased the likelihood that teen boys would use contraceptives the first time they had sex, according to the study by researchers at the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, which was published in the Journal of Adolescent Health.

So why is it, again, that lawmakers continue to extend funding of a program that provides youth with lies and misinformation and, what’s more, doesn’t work?

McConnell should listen to Ahmadinejad; they speak the same language of hate and delusion

Matt Gunterman September 25th, 2007

Our Senator Mitch McConnell (R) always has his finger on the pulse of the nation. After all, why — on a day when Kentucky GM workers went on nationwide strike for the first time in over a generation to decry loss of job security and benefits, and GM bosses insisted that the government needs to do something about the health care crisis in the nation (health care cost GM $5.2 billion in 2005) — why worry about that health care crisis [and McConnell certainly doesn't as he's busy obstructing expanded health care to American children] when you’ve got a premier American university to criticize.

McConnell lashed out yesterday at Columbia University’s decision to allow Iranian president Mahmoud Ahmadinejad (R?) to speak to the student body. Of course, in introducing Ahmadinejad, the president of the university called him a “petty and cruel dictator,” and the audience laughed at his ludicrous claims.

However, Ahmadinejad had a lot to say to American conservatives. After all, the Iranian leader repeated no fewer than three times that his country didn’t suffer from the twin plagues of homosexuals and homosexuality.

Isn’t homosexuality one of the chief threats to the United States in the eyes of Republicans? Isn’t this lifestyle choice a sign of moral decay and the rot of empire? Didn’t the Roman empire fall because its soldiers were too busy engaged in homosexual acts to defend themselves from invading hordes?

If Iran has eliminated homosexuality from its borders, then perhaps Mitch McConnell and other Republicans should approach what Ahmadinejad has to say with an open mind. Perhaps they should think harder about what true theocracy is and whether their preferred Christian faith is simply inferior to Islam.

Think long and hard, Mitch.

Schadenfreude: Louisville-area Young Republican gets caught with hand in the cookie jar, so to speak

Matt Gunterman August 8th, 2007

Hey! One of this guy’s fellow Young Republicans turned him in! Bad Young Republican! Didn’t you learn anything from the example of Scooter Libby? Take one for the team, man. Take one for the team! By the way, as AMERICAblog is reporting, this sort of activity isn’t the first on the record of Clark County Republican Chairman Glenn Murphy Jr.

GOP official in Clark investigated
Murphy accused of deviate conduct

By Ben Zion Hershberg

The Clark County Sheriff’s Department investigated an allegation of criminal deviate conduct last month against county Republican Chairman Glenn Murphy Jr., but no charges have been filed, Sheriff Danny Rodden said yesterday.

Murphy announced yesterday that he had stepped down from the party post as well as chairman of the Young Republican National Federation, the same day a report by the sheriff’s office on the investigation was posted on a blog listed on the Indiana Democratic Party Web site.

Rodden confirmed that the report came from his office but added, “I don’t know how it got to where it did.” He referred questions to the county prosecutor’s office.

Chief Deputy Prosecutor Bill Grimes declined to comment.

Murphy could not be reached for comment on the blog posting.

But Larry Wilder, Murphy’s lawyer, said he had discussed the report with Rodden and the prosecutor’s office.

“It is Mr. Murphy’s position that no crime occurred,” Wilder said. “It is his position that what occurred, occurred between two consenting adults.”

Wilder also said such reports are supposed to be kept confidential by police until a decision has been made by prosecutors about whether to file charges. He said he was disappointed that something of such a sensitive nature had been leaked in “a vindictive political process.”

Jennifer Wagner, communications director for the Indiana Democratic Party, said that she operates the blog during her free time and that its content is independent of the party.

Wagner declined to say how she obtained the report but said that as a well-known Democratic blogger, “I get all kinds of documents.”

Wagner said she did not post it for political purposes.

“It is up to law enforcement and judicial officials in Clark County to decide” if a crime was committed, Wagner said.

Wilder said Murphy’s resignation announcement from the GOP positions was unrelated to the blog posting. He said Murphy had been pursuing a major client for his advertising agency for months and recently won the contract, but the client won’t allow Murphy to engage in partisan politics.

Murphy, who lives in Utica, said earlier this summer when he was elected chairman of the Young Republicans national group that he would soon step down as county Republican chairman.

According to the sheriff’s report, the incident occurred July 29 after a Young Republicans party at a home in Jeffersonville. Several people, including Murphy and the alleged male victim, had been drinking and had been advised to sleep at the home, the report said.

It also said that the alleged victim told an investigator that he was contacted later by Wilder and was asked “what he wanted in order to resolve this situation.”

Wilder said he was not making a monetary offer.

Wilder said Murphy is cooperating with the sheriff and prosecutor’s office in the investigation.

Big Government? Big Lie! (And Other Matters of Note)

Terri Whitehouse August 1st, 2007

The Courier-Journal today ran an insightful piece written by E.J. Dionne Jr. on the myth of “big government.” Big government is, of course, a scare tactic used to justify lots of awful things, from lax gun control laws to not providing for the nation’s poor. Just exactly how big our government has actually gotten under the leadership of a Republican president, however, is worth a closer look.

In slightly unrelated news, Mark Hebert reports that nearly two-thirds of Kentuckians want some sort of U.S. troop withdrawal in Iraq.

Also, I’ve been meaning to blog about abstinence-only (mis)education for a number of weeks now, but Mary Q. Burton at the LEO does such a first-rate job in “Sex, lies and abstinence” that I’ll just quote in part:

Teri Lloyd was surprised when the sex education books her children brought home from school seemed woefully incomplete. The books omitted certain parts of the female anatomy — specifically, the clitoris.

“That’s got to be a shame, fear-based thing,” says Lloyd, 49, whose daughter, now 23, attended school at Myers Middle. “We just failed to educate them about their own bodies. What we leave out can be shaming, too. I wondered why that part wasn’t mentioned. I’m not opposed to teaching abstinence; what I’m opposed to is pairing it with shame or with lack of information about birth control and the human body.”

They can give enough of my tax money to fund religious anti-choice pregnancy centers, but can’t find a few hundred bucks for an accurate scientific rendering of the female anatomy? Nice.

My E-Mail to the KY GOP

Joe Sonka July 21st, 2007

(crossposted at BlueGrassRoots)

In response to the top three news items on the KY GOP’s website, I was forced to send them a friendly letter.

Item #1- They cite the 2 week old poll showing Beshear and Fletcher in a close race, which "shows" that Fletcher’s "leadership" in calling for the special session gave him a huge bump in the polls.

Item #2- They post an absolutely hilarious letter from Ned Flanders Stan Lee to his opponent Jack Conway, asking him to oppose Beshear gaming expansion, or as Ned Stan puts it, "his desire to see casinos in every county across the commonwealth". Basically, he cites studies showing that casinos lead to rape, robbery, drugs, aggravated assault, embezzlement, prostitution, divorce, motor vehicle theft, murder, suicide and abortions. Wow! But he buries the lead: “In 2002, the Indiana Gaming Commission fined the Belterra Casino $2.2 million for providing prostitutes to its customers. As part of the investigation into the prostitution scandal, it was reported that casino owners would send female ‘player development managers’ into surrounding communities to lure gentlemen back to the casino boats. One such female casino employee even stated that she was told to go to the popular bars and nightclubs in Lexington and pick up gentlemen to bring back to the casino.” Oh my.

Item #3: They post a column from right-wing nutjob Hugh Hewitt, in which he lavishes praise on McConnell for the filibuster to enable Bush’s Iraq policy.

My response:

Some comments on the three top stories on your website right now:

#1: I see that you posted the poll that showed the Governor’s race as being tight 2 weeks ago, just wondering why you haven’t posted the new SUSA poll showing Beshear stomping Fletcher? Perhaps the internet tubes are clogged and you haven’t received those yet. If so, I’m sorry to be the bearer of bad news.

#2: Is it wrong to ask about the causal linkage of casinos with rape and divorce? I’d be really interested to hear this explanation, especially from Ned Stan himself. And as far as the attractive women that go to bars in Lexington to pick up men: I need the names of the bars, Ned Stan. The NAMES, damnit!. Don’t Bogart this info just because you’re not interested, share the wealth.

#3: Additionally, I am glad that you finally found one conservative pundit that actually isn’t ashamed of Mitch McConnell. I know that this has been really difficult to find. I do like the fact that he’s praising Mitch for wrapping the Iraq anchor around the GOP’s neck too, it’s a nice touch.

All the best,
Joe

Our Forward-Thinking President Set to Issue Yet Another Veto

Terri Whitehouse June 22nd, 2007

Congress has voted to reverse a policy that bars the United States from providing contraception aid to foreign organizations that also provide abortions. Bush, however, will veto yet another bill (fourth? who’s counting?) and the veto will be upheld by right-wing lawmakers.

Better that people die from AIDS or unsafe abortions than send some rubbers overseas. That’s what the American “culture of life” is all about!

Fun at the Creation Museum!!!

Joe Sonka June 9th, 2007

I went to the truly insane “Creation Museum” last Saturday and have my full report up on BlueGrassRoots.

I’m a big fan of dark, unintentional humor, and that’s exactly what I got in my visit. What’s certainly not funny is that I could definitely see certain “Christian Academies” across the State (that teach Creationism in their school) bringing their students here on field trips. To call that child abuse would be appropriate in my opinion.

It also reinforces many, many negative stereotypes about Kentucky.

Another relevant question is how do our representatives stand on the museum? Do they endorse its views? Would they take their children there? Is this an appropriate field trip for students?

I haven’t heard any politicians take on this yet, and I’d be interested to hear it.

Anyway, I leave you a picture of Pebbles Flintstone and her pet Velaciraptor, Dino.




If We Ignore It, Maybe It Will Go Away

Terri Whitehouse June 7th, 2007

Sex, that is. You know, that dirty thing that men and women do together on their wedding nights and maybe a few other times throughout years of marriage in order to populate their congregations or whatever? Dirty. Dirty dirty despicable sex. Gross nasty people touching each other in their bathing suit areas. Eww, right?

No worries, though. House leadership today increased its extremely popular and effective abstinence-only education by nearly $30 million:

“Let’s face it, with friends like these, who needs conservative Republicans?” said James Wagoner, President of Advocates for Youth. “By continuing to fund these ineffective programs, the House Democratic leadership has signaled that the health and well-being of America’s teens are not their priority. Young people and their parents should be outraged.”

[…]

“The tragedy is not simply the waste of taxpayer dollars, which this clearly is,” added Wagoner, “but it is the damage done to the young people who have been on the receiving end of distorted, inaccurate information about condoms and birth control. Democrats are officially on record as promoting ignorance in the era of
AIDS — that’s not just bad public health policy, it’s also bad ethics and it’s just bad leadership.”

Salt ‘n’ Pepa, we need you now more than ever!

Somehow I don’t think Holsinger’s nomination will survive this latest bit of nonsense

Matt Gunterman June 6th, 2007

Will this bit of nonsense from Bush surgeon general nominee and University of Kentucky faculty member James W. Holsinger be the straw that breaks the nominating camel’s back? It’s disappointing — and I believe I’m remembering this correctly — that both the Louisville Courier-Journal and the Lexington Herald-Leader editorial boards endorsed this man’s nomination.

Gay group attacks Holsinger paper
1991 CHURCH REPORT ARGUED MALE SEX UNHEALTHY, UNNATURAL

By Sarah Vos

In 1991, Dr. James W. Holsinger — a University of Kentucky professor who is President Bush’s nominee for U.S. surgeon general — wrote a paper arguing that gay sex is biologically unnatural and unhealthy.

Like male and female pipe fittings, certain male and female body parts are designed for each other, Holsinger wrote in a paper prepared for a United Methodist Church committee studying homosexuality. “When the complementarity of the sexes is breached, injuries and diseases may occur,” Holsinger wrote in the paper, titled Pathophysiology of Male Homosexuality.

The paper was released Monday by the Human Rights Campaign, a national group that advocates for gay and lesbian rights. UK spokeswoman Mary Margaret Colliver confirmed that Holsinger had written the paper. Holsinger declined to comment for this story, as he has not been confirmed by the U.S. Senate.

[...]

I don’t think any of us needs me to point out that, excluding the sex organs, males and females have exactly the same orifices on their bodies, and those female orifices are just as capable of being used for sexual purposes as the male ones.

And, of course, the biggest problem here is that Holsinger, whom Bush wants to make the nation’s chief medical officer, is shown here, as the article points out, pathologizing homosexual practices to make his religious point. Why not just quote some scripture and leave the science to the realms of scientists? The mainstream medical community de-medicalized homosexual behavior decades ago.

Have sex with a high ranking government official, get $1 million from Larry Flynt

Jim Pence June 3rd, 2007


Larry Flynt

From ABC News:

Hustler magazine publisher Larry Flynt offered $1 million Sunday to anyone who could provide proof of an illicit sexual encounter with a high-ranking government official.

Ok here’s your chance.

If you’re getting ready to have sex with a high- ranking government official give me a call and I will videotape it for 5%. I promise I won’t watch.

If you’re trying to seduce a high-ranking government official into having sex, be sure to take them to a motel that has the Ten Commandments hanging just above the bed headboard (this will excite them), and then you will be able to listen to all the reasons why the Ten Commandments should be there while you’re getting screwed.

Camcorder

Give me a call. I have a good low light video camcorder, with a good zoom lens to capture the tiniest things from far away.